LEARNING TO BE DEPENDENT

  A member of my congregation once argued that the key element in aging well was learning to be dependent.  I felt terrified by such an idea—because it rang true for me.  We spend the first half of our lives developing an increasing level of independence, from...

CLOSE CALLS

I recently came way too close to a tornado, close enough to be in the swirl of debris a tornado accumulates along its path, close enough to narrowly miss having a tree dropped on my car.  As is often the case when one skates near disaster, the tornado encounter has...

BREAKING A PROMISE

As a minister, I believe that keeping promises is crucial and hold it as one of my highest values.  Within a congregation, covenants—which are a series of promises the people in a congregation make to one another—serve to bind individuals together in a community. ...

KNOWING MORE, UNDERSTANDING LESS

I thought by now my life would be different, or rather that I would be different.  I took to heart that typical response of adults to children’s questions once complicated matters have moved into focus, how “you’ll understand when you get older.” I counted on reaching...